In It Together, You Can Do Anything!

In It Together is the first peer forum designed specifically for ambitious couples. It combines three proven relationship frameworks — the Gottman Method, the Enneagram, and the Five Love Languages — into monthly facilitated sessions with groups of five couples. Members also get an annual retreat and an exclusive members-only app with daily exercises and relationship tools.

In It Together is designed for ambitious entrepreneur couples who invest in their professional growth through organizations like EO, YPO, or Vistage, and want to be equally intentional about their relationship. If you invest in coaches, masterminds, and retreats for your business but have never invested in your marriage as a couple, this is for you.

In It Together is not therapy. It is a peer forum — a facilitated group of five couples who support each other, share experiences, and grow together using proven relationship frameworks. While therapy focuses on diagnosing and treating issues with a professional, the forum model focuses on peer connection, shared learning, and mutual growth — similar to EO or YPO Forum, but for couples.

We integrate three research-backed systems: the Gottman Method (40+ years of research, 94% accuracy in predicting relationship outcomes), the Enneagram (nine personality types that reveal core motivations and communication patterns), and the Five Love Languages (identifying how you and your partner give and receive love).

Our proprietary AI matching model analyzes your Enneagram profiles, Love Language patterns, relationship goals, life stage, and values to pair you with couples who complement your dynamics. This ensures every forum group is intentionally composed for depth and connection — not randomly assembled.

Forum groups meet once per month in structured, facilitated sessions — available both virtually and in person. Each forum also includes one immersive annual retreat and ongoing connection through a private community between sessions.

In It Together was founded by Dave and Carrie Kerpen — a married couple of 20 years who built and sold an 8-figure company together. Dave is a 4x published author (including the NYT bestseller Likeable Social Media), a 16-year EO/YPO Forum member, and a longtime student of Gottman and the Enneagram. Carrie scaled Likeable Media to an 8-figure exit at 8.5x EBITDA.

Each forum consists of five couples — ten people total. This size is backed by decades of peer group research from EO and YPO. It is intimate enough for real vulnerability and deep connection, yet large enough for diverse perspectives.

Yes. Confidentiality is the foundation of every In It Together forum. All members sign a confidentiality agreement before joining. What is shared in your forum stays in your forum — this principle is modeled on the confidentiality standards of EO and YPO peer forums, which have upheld this practice for over 75 years.

Both. In It Together forum sessions are available virtually and in person. Many forums operate as hybrid groups, allowing couples to join from anywhere in the world while also offering in-person gatherings. The annual retreat is an in-person experience designed to deepen your connections.

Yes, both partners attend every session together. This is what makes In It Together fundamentally different from traditional peer forums like EO or YPO, which only include one partner. The forum is designed for the couple as a unit — the exercises, discussions, and frameworks all require both partners to be present and engaged.

The core commitment is one facilitated session per month, typically lasting 2-3 hours. Between sessions, couples are encouraged to complete brief exercises through the members-only app, which takes about 15-20 minutes per week. There is also one annual retreat. The total time investment is designed to be manageable for busy entrepreneur schedules.